To join my parents in a New FB Venture or not?
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Posted by eddygonsalves on 03/18/2010 11:48 am » Last modified by maxi on 04/16/2010 09:24 pm
Check out this argument regarding the evidence on the factors influencing the decision as to whether adult children, like ourselves, should decide to launch into a new business venture with our FB parents.
1. Search out other positions and arguments regarding the decision to launch into a new venture with parents, provide resource links for all of us to learn from AND
2. ALSO look at previous work into the factors influencing adult childrens’ decisions to join the FB regardless of a new venture.
This latter decision is referenced in the argument I’ve linked here.
Use this post to discuss your experiences as FB inheritors or FM members to reflect on the factors presented in these papers.
For too many people, staying in the family business is the easy wayto worm out of the difficulties of adult life: finding a place where you fit in, discovering what you love to do and living with the fear of rejection.
Especially today, with a dried-up job market, the family business is a way of avoiding a difficult job hunt.
I worked in a family business – a shoes stores and factory just for my holiday. I started when I was 12, selecting new collections for teenagers, and by the end of college I was a member of the company having a power to influence them on their choices because I could see the needs of their target. After so many years, I was a member of the designers in the factory but I wanted to do something else. I just wasn’t sure what and I decided to challenge myself and avoid the easy way of life.
After living in many countries and having enough experience, I am certain that there are three things you should do before you decide to settle down with your family business for the long haul:
1. Figure out your dream job.
Don’t worry about being realistic. Rock star, movie producer, politician: everything is fair game. Then decide if you want to go down the path to fulfill that dream. Don’t feel bad if the dream is impossible. Many dreams are not realistic, but they contain gems of truth. For example, someone who dreams of being a rock star probably wants to be creative at work. The exercise of dreaming helps you to figure out your core needs. Once you know these needs, take an honest look at the family business. If you cannot fulfill your core needs in the family business, you should leave.
2. Get a job.
Even if you are sure you’ll stay in the family business, get a job outside of the business. Job hunting is awful, which is why you should do it. The process is humbling and scary because on one level, you are asking someone to pay you to work so you can eat; at another level, job hunting requires understanding yourself well enough to talk about your dreams, your strengths and your weaknesses. You need to experience what it is like to ask for a day off from someone who doesn’t love you. Working for someone outside your family helps you to interact effectively with all people outside your family. This process is a rite of passage, and if you don’t go through it, you risk stunted growth
3. Take a large risk.
If the entrepreneur is on the high end of the risk-taking scale, the kid who stays in the family business is on the low end. At the end of life, the thing people most often say they regret is not taking enough risks. Make sure that staying in the family business will not make you wish later that you were a risk taker. If you take a large risk early on, then you can be more certain that you are not staying in the family business because you are scared of taking risks. Risks are different for everyone. A mountain for one person is a molehill for another. Find something that scares you and do it.
Adult life is about learning what matters to you and creating a life that reflects your values. To know what’s important, though, you need to see the world.
Take time to establish yourself independently from your family, at least for a while, so you can see yourself more clearly. Whether you stay in the family business or go somewhere else, you’ll be a happier person for making the decision honestly.
I have read an article in Business Week called: Should you Join the Family Business? written by James Olan Hutcheson
http://www.businessweek.com/smallbiz/content/sep2006/sb20060928_575514.htm
The author firstly advises that there is never a right or wrong decision but he does recommend that if one does decide to join one´s parents business one should have:
a) First had work experience (non family related) because this helps build a business judgment and allows one to bring some new perspective and new ideas to our parents’ company
b) Have undergone several work interviews as one day one might be required to interview and hire employees for the family firm. This helps us become more sensitive and able have a better sense when undertaking interviews ourselves.
If having the previous two experiences and deciding to join the Family Business Hutcheson recommends:
“1. Make sure that you have a real desire and passion for the business. Do you like what the company sells? Are you proud of the reputation? Do not join the family business just because your mother or father told you to.
2. Fill out a job application and go through the interview process. Starting work should be a deliberate step and not your father saying, “Come on in tomorrow and start.”
3. Make sure your father or someone else in a senior management position gives you a list of your specific job responsibilities and the criteria by which your performance will be measured.
4. Start your career by reporting to someone other than a family member, if possible.
5. At all costs, avoid taking advantage of your family relationship as it may relate to pay and benefits.” (Hutcheson, 2006)
I also tend to believe that whilst one is younger one tends to seek a path of one’s own. At least in my case I felt I I should not work for my parents after I finished my undergraduate, hence I moved to Caracas, Venezuela´s capital and achieved several years of work experience.
Due to family circumstances I had to leave my job in Caracas in year 2004 and take care of my father´s business which I knew well as I worked in it whilst undergoing my undergraduate. I found that I could see and understand things in a different way, my approach was different and also my passion for it had increased.
If I do go back and live in the same city my parents live I would certainly engage in their businesses as I feel not only passion for my parents but also for what they do and would try to bring in “new blood” into their businesses and profoundly enjoy new work experiences along with them.
The adult child’s decision as to whether or not to join his or her parents to start the business is certainly one of the milestone events.
1) Birley (1991) identified factors such as pressure from parents, interest in the managing business, certain industry characteristics and demographic factors as predictors of adult child’s decision to join the existing family business.
2) The Starvou and Swiercz (1998) model identifies certain family factors, bsuienss factors, personal factors and market factors (like the ones Haithem already mentioned).
A study conducted to determine the factors which influence an adult child’s decision to start a new family venture, came up with the following results:
1) The decision of an adult child to join a new family business with his or her parents will depend on the relative roles of the parties in the new venture, but not which the parent was involved in.
2) The role of the adult child in the new venture is a bigger factor in the decision to enter the business than the opportunity to be involved with a specific parent or both parents without consideration of relative hierarchical roles in the new venture.
3) Hence in summary the adult child’s decision to join a new venture with his or her parents will primarily depend on whether the relative roles the child and parents will occupy in the management of the venture will be substantially equal.
This article is called:
‘Entrepreneurial opportunity exploitation and the family: relationship-based factors that effect the adult child’s decision to jointly participate with parents in anew venture’, (Leaptrott, McDonald, M., 2008)
It can be viewed on:
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1TOL/is_13/ai_n32103088/pg_8/?tag=content;col1
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Most and Least Important Reasons for Which Offspring Choose or Do Not Chose Employment in the Family Business
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Most Frequently Identified Intentions to join
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Least Frequently Identified Intension to Join
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Most Frequently Identified Intentions not to Join
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Least Frequently Identified Intentions not to Join
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The above table visually represents the reasons found by Stavrou (1999) that offspring give to join or not join the family business. The information is based on the findings of her study titled Succession in the family business: Exploring the effects of demographic factors on offspring intensions to join and take over the business. The above reasons were all picked by offspring. The data analysis and more information can be found in her study here
Stavrou, Eleni T., 1999. Succession in Family Businesses: Exploring the Effects of Demographic Factors on Offspring Intentions to Join and Take over the Business. Journal of Small Business Management, Jul99, 37, pp. 43-61.
Fleming, Q.J., 2000. Excerpt from keep the family baggage out of the family business. Businessweek. [Online] 18 February. Available at: http://www.businessweek.com/smallbiz/0002/bk000218.htm. [Accessed 5 April 2010]
in china, a part of the second generation of family business did not follow their parents way to join the FM immediately. they choose launch a new venture by their own. However, a lot of them can get the fund from their parents.
according the chinese academic article” the research of the second generation of chinese family business”
it mention that the start-up fund of second generation is occuied 98% total.
In the side of parents, chinese father and mother does not their child involed FM earlier, because of the one child policy in china, in general, parents perfer do all the work by themselves, they always coddle their child.
on the other hand, child do not join the FM earlier, because they need more personal life, they do not want work under their their parents. so they perfer launch a venture by themselves.



